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Rúben Dias

A Life in Full

A Sports World Exclusive Interview

Videographer: Thomas White Photography: Oliver Hayes Location: Mottram Hall Partial Styling: END Clothing Special Thanks: Nebula Sports

“Quem não arrisca não petisca”

He who doesn’t venture, doesn’t gain.

Ruben Dias is a man defined by more than medals.

His record speaks for itself—but we’re not here to revisit his footballing successes. We all know what he represents when he steps onto the pitch.

We’re here to introduce you to Ruben Dias, the man—a humble, respectful, and above all, charismatic figure who embraces life and the people around him.

A man who speaks with intention, leads with grace and lives with the same intensity he brings to football.

A man who values connection, friendship, family—and the ideals he was raised upon.

A man of humility and presence. Grounded. Purposeful. Resolute.

In a world where image often outweighs identity, Ruben is refreshingly real.

So, step off the pitch with Sports World—and meet Ruben Dias, as he truly is.

A man living a life in full.

Nestled in the rolling countryside of Cheshire, Mottram Hall offered the perfect backdrop for a quiet conversation with one of football’s most compelling figures.

It’s a far cry from the roar of the Etihad or the intensity of Champions League nights, but for Ruben, this moment of calm feels entirely fitting.

There’s a weight to how Ruben speaks—not heavy, but considered. Like the man himself, every word is deliberate, every sentence measured. He thinks before he speaks, and when he does, it’s with clarity and conviction.

He may be the heartbeat of Manchester City’s defence, but what defines him seemingly runs far deeper than anything that unfolds on the pitch.

“I’m just someone who’s just enjoying his passion, doing what he loves,” says Ruben. “Football has become my life, and I love what I do. I try not to complicate things. I’m a simple person. I like what I like, I stay close to the people I love, and I’m happy that way.”

Ruben possesses a natural modesty that feels genuine and sincere, and doesn’t deal in clichés or platitudes—he means every word.

In fact, there’s a quiet intensity in how he views life: a clear-eyed embrace of both the joy and the cost of chasing excellence.

As he reflects on the early years that shaped him, one thing is clear—his path was always defined by purpose.

“I was always very driven and focused on my dream,” he says. “I think, in a way, I willingly missed out on some of the usual things you experience in youth—friendships, young relationships, just normal life stuff—because I was so focused. And I wouldn’t change a thing. I was conscious and aware even back then. I was simply following my passion.”

It’s this mindset that drove Ruben from Lisbon to Manchester—a journey that has become as romantic as it is relentless.

For someone as ambitious and grounded as Ruben, the move was never just about football—it was about identity, sacrifice, and growth.

“Lisbon is my paradise,” says Ruben. “It always has been, and it always will be. Since I left, I’ve come to appreciate it so much more—maybe three, five times more. Before, it was just my normal. But now, I see how beautiful it really is. Of course, Manchester is a very different city, but I believe if you’re happy at work, you can be happy anywhere. I’ve found my happiness here.”

What stands out about Ruben is the duality of his perspective—rooted in the past, fully engaged in the present, and thoughtfully aware of what lies ahead.

Lisbon may always be home, but life has a way of redrawing even the clearest of maps.

“[Where I am] will always depend on life,” says Ruben. “On the person I’m with, the family I build, what she wants too—but yes, Lisbon is always a very good option for me.”

Now in his fifth season at Manchester City, Ruben has more than earned his place as a leader—on the pitch, yes, but perhaps even more compellingly in how he carries himself away from it.

Since arriving in 2020, he has helped steer City through a golden era, lifting four Premier League titles, a Champions League, an FA Cup, a League Cup, the Community Shield, the UEFA Super Cup, and the FIFA Club World Cup.

It’s a trophy haul that speaks to his impact—but what truly sets Ruben apart is his consistency, his presence, and the standards he upholds.

In a sport often obsessed with the immediate, he is crafting something enduring: a legacy built not only on silverware, but on character.

“I was in a good place before—at Benfica—and I always told my agents I would only move for the right place,”says Ruben. “A place where I could be myself and show the world who I am.

“When the opportunity came, there wasn’t much to think about. Now, with four and a half years gone, in my fifth season, I can say it was the right choice. And even though I’ve achieved a lot, I still feel recharged by everything I’ve done. I’ve still got so much more to give.”

Mottram Hall’s quiet grandeur feels apt. Elegant, but not showy. Peaceful, but never dull. It’s the kind of place that invites focus—fitting for a player who values clarity, both on and off the pitch.

“The kind of work I do keeps me busy—games, training, recovery,” says Ruben. “But when I do get time off, I enjoy the simple things. Dinner out, time with the people I love, a good film, a good concert. But honestly, I stay at home a lot—and I love it. The rain helps—it makes things cozy!”

Home, for Ruben, isn’t just a place. It’s a mindset. In Manchester’s grey skies, he’s found not frustration but a kind of stillness—one that allows space for thought and growth.

It’s not surprising that someone so structured in his professional life would find joy in the quiet moments. Whether it’s switching off with music, spending time with loved ones, or enjoying the peace of solitude, Ruben’s version of balance isn’t performative. It’s personal, practical—and intentional.

“Life really changed when I came here,” he says. “I’d always lived with my family—my parents were very open and flexible, so both me and my brother felt comfortable staying at home. When I moved here, it was the first time I lived alone. That was new for me.

“I started going to dinner by myself, to the cinema alone—and I found peace in that. I believe you can only be good with someone else if you’re good on your own. So I really dug deep into that experience. And I’m happy now—just as I was then.”

There’s no sense of performance in the way Ruben speaks. His words are thoughtful, measured—not dressed up, but not guarded either. He’s not trying to impress; he’s simply explaining who he is.

That willingness to reflect—and to be honest about what he’s learned—adds a quiet strength to his presence. He isn’t just talking about growth; he’s actively practising it. And for someone in the spotlight as often as Ruben, that kind of self-awareness is rare.

“I think it’s about the influences you have—music, movies, shows, different cultures,” says Ruben. “Me and my brother have always been quite influenced by American culture. It’s something that grew with us. I don’t think too much about it because everyone has their own taste. I just appreciate the differences and dress how I feel good.”

Style, to Ruben, is instinctive. It’s not about trends or statements—it’s about feeling at ease. While others chase attention, he’s more interested in being consistent with himself.

There’s no sense of calculation in what he wears, or why. It’s about self-expression in its simplest form—comfortable, natural, and without compromise. It’s the same with the way he carries himself: calm, quietly confident, and always considered.

“I try to stay away from trends,” he says. “I am who I am, and I wear what I like. I don’t really enjoy it when something becomes a trend just because everyone’s doing it—I think it loses a bit of its magic. I just do my thing, independently.”

That sense of independence runs through everything—from how he dresses to how he prepares for what’s next. Even as he remains fully committed to the game, Ruben is already thinking about life beyond it.

For many players, that kind of forward thinking only begins when the end approaches. For Ruben, it’s been part of his journey from the very beginning. He knows the rhythm of a football career—and he’s planning for the space between the final whistle and whatever comes next.

“Since I was 17 or 18, I’ve thought about it [life after football],” he says. “I think how you end your career—and how you transition after—is just as important as how you perform during. It’s a huge challenge to go from this routine to something totally different. I’ve seen examples where that transition was tough, so I’ve always tried to prepare mentally for it.

“I have a lot of dreams, and I love education. I enjoy building for the future—investments, family sustainability. It excites me. Some of those answers are still to come, but I like thinking about it. It gives me adrenaline.”

It’s not about escaping football. It’s about building something that lasts. And Ruben is clear-eyed about what really matters to him—both as a professional and as a person.

That clarity, again, comes back to values. Whether he’s planning for the future, supporting his family or making day-to-day decisions, Ruben’s mindset rarely wavers. The discipline that defines him as a footballer carries through to every part of his life.

“I’m in a very good place; I’ve won everything you can win in England,” says Ruben. “But legacy is more than trophies. It’s about how you conduct yourself—your consistency, your seriousness, your resilience. That’s what I want to pass on to my children. That their dad never stopped. That’s the biggest prize for me.”

And what about the road ahead? Ruben doesn’t overthink it. He knows who he is—and he knows what he wants.

There’s still hunger, still ambition—but there’s also perspective. Whether it’s starting a family or continuing to lead on the pitch, Ruben isn’t chasing something abstract. He’s building a future with purpose. One step at a time.

“We’ll find out [what’s next],” he replies. “A lot of running, hard work, passion, ambition. I know I’ve done a lot already, but there’s so much more to do—both professionally and personally. I’ve always wanted to build a family, and I know that’ll be a very special part of my life.

“You can expect a Ruben who throws himself at life, in every possible way. Life isn’t perfect—it’s imperfect. But I love all the parts of it. Even the hard moments—they make us appreciate what we have.”



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